You’re passionate about your work.
Helping others is what you’re called to do.
Luckily, you found Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
You’ve dedicated countless hours and precious resources to developing your skills as an Emotionally Focused Therapist.
You believe in the power that EFT has in helping your clients heal.
Finally, you have a map! The map to helping individuals and couples identify and break free from the cycles of conflict and disconnection that leave them feeling hopeless and alone.
But helping can be hard.
It’s so easy to put our own needs aside.
We march on – day after day… week after week – striving to help our clients see that how they keep their hearts safe contributes to the cycles that are keeping them trapped in their painful dance. It’s the dance of isolation and disconnection with themselves and those they love.
We all know that magical moment when our clients find the courage to make contact with their inner voice. That quiet voice that helps them identify their hidden longings. The longing to feel loved, cherished, valued, and important – the longings that foster safe attachments. Reliable relationships. Freedom from a life of constant fear and anger.
We shouldn’t do this work alone.
We need to reach out…
Sometimes, our passion for helping others leaves little time to nurture our connections with family, friends, and colleagues. We may shove aside our longings in service of helping others.
Even though we “have the map,” we think we may not need the same things our clients do. We can soldier on.
We need to build support networks…
What has surprised me the most about becoming an EFT therapist is discovering the amazing community of dedicated EFT professionals who lead with compassion, warmth, and acceptance. I feel confident that the EFT community is a true refuge – a place of safety and encouragement.
We need to recharge with meaningful connections…
Give yourself the gift of connection. You deserve it! Whether you are starting your career or have been helping others for decades, it would be an honor to walk alongside you as you do this amazing, beautiful, meaningful work. We are changing people’s lives! Let’s celebrate!
And when you feel lost in the Tango, confused about the cycle, or wondering if you will ever get it right, I will remind you that we’ve all been there. You don’t have to do it alone. Let’s figure it out together.
Let’s get connected.
And we’ll grow our EFT skills together.
Let’s talk more during your free consultation: (847) 447-0712. I’m looking forward to meeting you!